Are you so lucky to have the bestest friend in the whole wide world? A person who you can share everything with and know that they wont judge you and will always be there for you even if they don’t agree with your decisions? Well, I am so lucky to have just that! A lot of you will already know who she is but for the few of you that don’t know who she is her name is Sophia. I met her on twitter and if you have a twitter account I would suggest you follow her ( @sinful_sophia ) because she’s awesome. Now I know there are some of you who will say, you can’t have a BFF that you have only met online followed by how well could you possibly know her. I am here to tell you that yes you can meet your BFF online and you can know them just as well as someone you meet in real life. In my case I know her better than any of my other friends and I believe that she knows me better than any of hers.
Sophia and I met back in October of 2010, yep only a short 6 months ago. We started chatting on twitter in the time line which eventually led to direct message and then yahoo instant messenger. We chat online everyday now, often you will find us chatting in twitter with others and leaving messages on each others blogs. (If you have never been to her blog check it out .. Not a Perfect Life ) We now talk regularly on the phone, at least once a week more if time permits. Her and I had a pretty instant connection, it wasn’t long after we met that we were saying the same thing at the same time on twitter and IM. It was happening all the time, non stop and would make us laugh. As we got to know each other we found we had so much in common and we’re so alike.
It always seems like things were happening to us at the same time or we will find out something else that we have in common. We have had so many things happen to us at the same time, both of us had “young-ins” lusting after us on twitter and which both stopped talking to us at very similar times. Both our animals got sick within days of each other. We have both helped one another see that something wasn’t right and “held each others hands” while we worked things out. We have had heartache at nearly the same time and then we both began new relationships that have made us both extremely happy and fulfilled. Those are just a few of the things we have had happen at the same time if I named everything you just might think we were lying. It happens so often that her and I have talked about how insane it is and that if it always happen to only one of us first we would probably think that the other was playing a joke or lying. But it doesn’t only always happen to one of us first, sometimes things happen to Sophia first and then me and other times things happen to me first and then her.
We also have tons in common. We both have husbands who said they were into BDSM and then backed out leaving us to struggle through our submission alone, which of course means that we are both submissive. We both have worked in the medical field and hate feet!! We both have 1 child who was abandoned by their mother and we both have stepped up to be great moms to our kids. We have brown hair are 5 foot 6 inches tall and wear size 8 to 8 1/2 shoe depending on the type. We both hate milk, are forgetful and can’t remember shit!! I could go on and on it’s really ridiculous and you would think that by now I wouldn’t be surprised when new things happen but I am still surprised each and every time it happens. It’s almost a running joke now between us, when ever something happens the other says, of course we are BFF’s. Don’t worry we aren’t complete freaks we do have differences. Shes a veggie and I am meat lover, she doesn’t mind sharing and I am completely against it and she lives in Ca and I live in Tx. Um, yeah well that’s about it for differences :) I am just kidding but they are much harder to come by then our similarities.
I feel most lucky to have my BFF she is an amazing person and I am completely ok with the fact that we met through twitter. I don’t believe that it is everyday that you find a friendship as genuine as ours. I share everything with Sophia, she knows about my D/s life, about my family, and my vanilla life there isn’t anything that I am not comfortable sharing with her. I know that one day we will have the chance to meet in person and I have no doubt that we will hit it off. Until then we will continue to chat through the TL, DM, IM, text and phone calls.
I love you BFF :o)